Deep in the soul

Chatter chatter she goes on... chuckle chuckle for the smallest of the things.. then again is she beautiful??? Yes... She's beautiful but not like those girls in the magazines. She was beautiful, for the way she thought. She was beautiful, for the sparkle in her eyes when she talked abt something she loved. She was beautiful for the ability to make other people smile, even if she was no she wasn't beautiful for something as temporary as her looks. She was beautiful deep down in her soul... kudos to u who has her eyes on this... keep going it's beautiful :)

Kruthi

She

I asked her if she was ok
N she said "I am fine I swear"
When I looked deep into her eyes
Something untold something very painful
She looked away in a jiffy
N tried to put on her best smile
She with a shrill voice told "I will sail through it's just taking a little time"
I knew she was hurting
I knew her pain was deep
She felt the burden of hers n wanted to keep it to her own self
My hands reached out to her
Our hands entwined
I just uttered "I love you my dear
So your burdens are mine"
Tears rolled her cheeks n my hands reached to wipe them FOREVER

Kruthi

I love you. I’m just not in love with you.

If you’ve been in a few romantic relationships before, you may be a little too familiar with the phrase, “I love you. I’m just not in love with you.” Whether you’re the person saying it or whether it’s being said to you, the person speaking usually doesn’t quite know what they mean, and the person being spoken to usually has even less of an idea of what these words really mean. With all of that being said, it’s difficult to argue that there is a distinction between loving someone and being in love with someone. Please continue reading to learn more of the specifics, and to better comprehend when you’re part of one of these distinct relationships in the future.
Unfortunately, the word love has become a bit of a cliché, and as a result, some human beings don’t fully appreciate how special it is to either love or be loved. Even if someone genuinely loves you in a non-romantic way, this is still something to feel positive about. Of course, it may be impossible to feel this way about the situation if you are in love with them and their love is different, but usually it’s possible to see the reality of the situation (or of what the situation was) in time. What’s more, when two human beings really are in love with each other, it’s even more of a Universal blessing than they usually acknowledge.
Metaphysical love
If you know in your heart that you still love a person—even if you haven’t seen or spoken to them in years—and will always love them forever regardless of virtually any of their future words or actions, then your love really is existential. Of course, it makes you wonder how any human being could ever spend so much time away from another person they feel this way about.
Self love is not being in love
By the same token, if you feel as though your are “in love” with another person but it is clear that they are not in love with you—then it can’t be true or genuine romantic love. Of course, it’s usually worth it to continue spending time with the other person in order to see if your passionate feelings will soon be reciprocated, but once it becomes clear they never will be, then you can’t be in true love with the person.

How To Believe In What You Want To Attract

If you’re going to use the Law of Attraction as an effective tool, one of the most important things that you need to do is truly believe that you can obtain the things you want in life. Whether you’re longing for an ideal partner, a great job or a fit physique, know that you can meet your goals. Entertaining doubts or negative ideas merely inhibits your ability to get the things you deserve. If you find it difficult to really believe in what you want to attract, use these five steps to cultivate a different mindset.

1. Replace Negative With Positive

Each time you notice you’re feeling down or worrying that you will never meet your goals, reject this thought and replace it with an analogous positive thought. For example, firmly tell yourself that you are well on your way to finding the love of your life, that you know you can achieve your career aims, or that you will be happy again after your divorce. As you get used to replacing negative thoughts with positive ones, the process will gradually get easier.

2. Live Like You Have What You Want

Living like you already have that ideal partner, dream job or overflowing bank account can enhance your ability to manifest your goals. Although you might feel self-conscious or awkward at first, this exercise will begin to feel truly powerful if you do something like browse online for things you’ll afford when you’re more prosperous or buy a card that is addressed to your future spouse. Proponents of the Law of Attraction sometimes call this approach “living in the knowingness” and it is a lifestyle infused with positivity and confidence that can help to make you a more dynamic, magnetic person.

3. Read Success Stories

There are dozens of success stories revealing how people all across the globe used the Law of Attraction as a tool in transforming their lives. Reading these stories will connect you with the reality that learning how to use the Law of Attraction really can make an enormous difference to your happiness and satisfaction, helping you to get rid of lingering doubts about

You can start by listening to my success story here. You will learn what I discovered to be the most powerful manifesting energy source ever known.

4. Say and Write Affirmations


You probably already know that affirmations are a key part of using the Law of Attraction, but you may not have considered that they can be used to actually strengthen your belief in what you want to attract. For example, you might say “I know my soul mate is out there looking for me” as you look at yourself in the mirror, or you could say “Everything I did today is leading me towards a better life” before you go to bed at night. Repeatedly writing affirmations can make them even more effective, as can placing them on large pieces of paper that can be seen when you’re getting ready in the morning. Any message that connects you to the truth of your future happiness can be a valuable and powerful way of increasing the Law of Attraction’s pull.

5. Boost Your Confidence

Often, it is low self-esteem that underlies difficulties believing in what you want to attract. While difficult life experiences and painful memories of early life can make it hard to feel good about yourself, taking a positive perspective on your own worth is essential for using the Law of Attraction. Firstly, think about why you struggle with confidence issues, and dismiss the underlying assumptions that you discover. For example, you might remember being told you were unattractive when you were bullied at high school, but you can counteract this by focusing on the many times you have been complimented or asked on dates in adult life. Secondly, nurture the parts of yourself that make you most proud. Whether you’re physically capable, creatively talented or a great listener, hone these skills and make them central parts of your life. The more your confidence increases in response to consistently good results, the easier it will be for you to believe that you genuinely deserve the things you’re attempting to use the Law of Attraction to obtain.

Que Sera Sera!!!

.... And then I learnt the spiritual journey had nothing to do with being nice... It was all about being authentic, real having boundaries... Honoring my space first others second... And in this space self care, being nice just happened... It flowed not motivated by fear but by love.... Miracles are bound to happen, keep forging with an ever lasting smile and you will live a BIG life not a LONG one.... So be it :) 

Virtue

"So today we find people praising women and calling her a pillar of strength and talking about her resilience. The patriarchal labels of wife, sister, mother and daughter are given to her and suddenly she is compared to a deity too. Please do not raise us on this false pedestal. Accept a woman as a flawed messed up human being too, who might not be a saint 24*7.  For every one woman you project as a saint or Mother India you look with contempt at thousands who don’t conform-a prostitute, a lesbian, a woman who enjoys sex and any ordinary woman who thinks for herself. You vilify those who flee from stereotypes and don’t fit into society defined roles. How about just respecting a woman as a human being?-All labels aside. Do not make a woman a paragon of virtue for one day".

Lot to add on...

⦁ I went to a wedding for a young, happy couple who were free spirited and ready to forge in their journey. They held hands and gazed into each other's eyes during the ceremony, and I saw the bride whisper "I love you" to him.

The officiant in the wedding was an older man who began to give advice to the couple. I sat back in my seat, preparing for the "love her every day" and "be each other's best friends" slogans we hear all the time.

But what he said next made me sit up in my chair.

"Some days, you're going to wake up and not like each other," he said.

Wait, is this real? Is he being this blunt at someone's wedding?

"And other days, one of you will believe you're right while the other believes they're right too. And you may go off in your own corners and think, 'Well, I'm right. And I'm not moving until the other person does.'"

The whole room was listening to this humorous man speak directly to the couple. He then told this bride and groom the key to overcoming these moments.

"There are four words that will solve this problem, every time." The man then turned to the groom.

"When you feel, in an argument, that you are right and she is wrong, you should take a deep breath, find her in the house, and say, 'Honey, you're probably right.'"

The man then turned to the bride and said, "And when you feel like he's done something wrong and has ruined the whole day, you should go to him and say, 'Honey, you're probably right.'"

"Honey, you're probably right."

Doesn't that go against everything we've learned? We're supposed to compromise, to recognize a right and a wrong, to stand up for ourselves in marriage. Why would we just say this when we don't believe

⦁ something about sacrifice and pride. Maybe you'll always think you were really right about buying that new car or going to your parent's house this Christmas. And maybe your spouse will still think they're right. But the first step to forgiveness and healing is to break your guard down, forget about who's right and who's wrong, and see things in a new perspective.

⦁ If these four words are said sarcastically, or if they're only used to end an argument, nothing will really be solved.

" for the expression "I'm sorry" to be truly sincere it has to be expressed with love and empathy, not merely to excuse oneself."

There will be times during your marriage when you'll be upset. You'll be wrong. And other times, you'll be right. Whenever you choose to say these four words, it will be because you've decided that it's more important to be married than to be right all the time.